Hello, My Names Red and I'm a Coffeeholic.

My coffee addiction has gotten serious, Its possibly reached the point of coffee dependency…

Me my younger woman have the strangest relationship… I really can not get my head around it. No sex, actually barely sexual contact what so ever….It’s a text book “we should just be friends” relationship but neither of us wants to say it first. The major family event went ok, mainly because there were about 100 less people than they expected, unfortunate for the family but good news for me

I’m ever so attracted to her friend…she’s more fun, better looking and possibly slightly more promiscuous but I’m fairly sure this makes me a terrible person and realistically the whole “running off with the best friend” situations rarely work.

Me and the Work Colleague were getting on well, everyone seems to dislike her so I’ve been the voice of reason and a friend for the last week or so. There were occasional exchanges of flirting… she took my number, constantly giggles at me but then casually mentioned a boyfriend…or was it a friend’s boyfriend? Anyway I then skulked off… and am currently deciding if she is worth stealing.

There are also a few other romantic interests… but maybe more about them later….


Yes. We have already decided I am a terrible person.

All is quiet in the world of Red

Firstly where have all the bloggers gone? Everyone I’m following hasn’t blogged in ages and I’m starting to feel slightly alone out here!

Back to the real world: I have come back from my holiday. Back from all my home friends I grew up with, back to work and a slightly segregated life. I still don’t know nearly enough people around here and am getting pretty bored.

I can’t afford the travel to see the woman I’m romancing and for me and my short sightedness that’s more than enough to kill a relationship. To make matters worse in this sexless, more like friendship, soon to be fizzling out, relationship I am attending a major and very serious family event…how do I get my self into these situations?!?

On more interesting grounds an interesting, attractive work colleague has just joined our company and we spent all evening watching films and chatting (at work…my jobs very odd, don’t worry about it)

Red Out